About Shane
A Fresh Perspective on Marriage
I’m Shane Frazier, certified coach, Pastor, and founder of Fresh Eyes Coaching. After 25+ years of leading churches, building teams, and walking alongside couples through crisis, conflict, and growth, I’ve learned one thing over and over: what you can’t see can shape everything.
That’s why I coach couples who want more than simply staying together, I help them build a marriage they actually enjoy. Through fresh perspective, honest conversation, and practical tools, I help couples uncover blind spots, recognize unhealthy patterns, understand each other more deeply, and discover new ways forward. I like to call it "blindspots to breakthroughs".
I’ve also learned that sometimes the hardest thing to see is what’s happening in our own marriage. We can love each other deeply and still get stuck in patterns we don’t know how to break.
Fresh Eyes Coaching exists to help couples see their marriage differently, find their way forward, and learn to love being married.
Because sometimes you don't need a new marriage,
you just need a fresh set of eyes.
Stories of Breakthroughs
Jimmy & Skylar
We came to Fresh Eyes Coaching before we were even married, and it set an incredible foundation for our relationship. Through coaching, we established clear communication patterns as a couple and gained skills that improved not only our marriage, but our independent relationships as well.
The most impactful part of the experience was establishing a weekly meeting to keep us connected. If you’re considering coaching, go into it with an open mind! It isn't a quick fix, but it gives you new, effective ways of communicating that continue to benefit you over time."
We were very unsure if we were even going to stay together. We were carrying a lot of hurt and trying to figure everything out on our own while beginning to find our faith in the Lord. Through coaching, we learned what true forgiveness and grace look like, how to genuinely forgive and release the burdens we were carrying to the Lord, and how to stop trying to heal and fix our relationship on our own. We learned to invite the Lord into our relationship and allow Him to do the healing and transforming we could not do ourselves. Having an unbiased, Christ-centered person walk alongside us, providing guidance, perspective, and truth without taking sides, completely changed the foundation of our relationship.
Miles & Victoria
Before coaching, my husband and I were bickering constantly and felt more like roommates than a married couple. Coaching helped us develop better communication and provided accountability for both of us, which made a real difference in our relationship. One of the most helpful parts was knowing we had a third party, Pastor Shane, who genuinely loved us both, cared about our marriage, and prayed for us. Having someone who could walk alongside us with wisdom, encouragement, and accountability was incredibly valuable. I would absolutely recommend coaching to anyone considering it. It’s so helpful, not just for working through what’s happening right now, but for building accountability, investing in your future, and creating long-term health in your relationship.
Ivan & Amy
